What I write in this blog is more insight into my previous blog about living with regret.

Never in life will lashing out in anger to being wronged ever result in a positive or acceptable outcome for anyone.

Being angry is not wrong, it is what you do with that anger that is most often wrong.

No matter how hurtful, how devastating, or how disrespectfully you are treated, it is never acceptable behavior to reciprocate such treatment.

Two wrongs do not make a right!

I failed to remember this!

The facts of what befell two loving people is not important. It is what we both did not do that is. We both failed to live up to a promise we made each other. Both failed to remember what we based our entire relationship upon. Three simple and yet vital fundamentals of every relationship.

1.) TRUST
2.) UNDERSTANDING
3.) COMMUNICATION

No relationship will ever survive the trials and tribulations of life if both or even one loses sight of these very important elements.

There is no chance of resolving any issues in a relationship if anger leads to insults, accusations, and misunderstanding.

Sadly, a very beautiful and wonderful relationship came to an end because the distance between us was not just physical, but also emotional.

We did not have the one thing our relationship required.

Complete understanding.

In closing I can only say that this relationship has taught me so many valuable lessons.

1.) No matter how much you are hurt, do not lose yourself to anger.

2.) No matter how difficult it may seem to be, always be open and honest about what you truly feel. Holding back because you fear hurting someone is only going to make it harder on you both in the end.

3.) If you do not completely understand any words, thoughts, or feelings from your mate then ask them to explain things until you do.

4.) Never ever let your assumptions, and jealousy cloud your logic. Get the facts before you make any accusations.

5.) No matter how hard it is to do, never walk away from a conversation in anger. Find a compromise, find a way to quell the anger before walking away and come back later to find a solution.

Wisdom comes from experience.
Albeit sad or happy does not matter. The point of both is to learn and become wiser for them all.