Today’s topic is devoted more to our dear Gentlemen, but I suppose, that some women will find it rather interesting too…Once I read such an advice in a famous magazine for men …Generally speaking, I was shocked, so now I want to find out, is it true???
I would like every man here not be indifferent to my question. Maybe, your opinion will change minds of some women. Everything is possible!!!:)))
Hope, I may give a quotation from this magazine .Here is it: “Guys: a word of advice. Marry pretty women or ugly ones. Short ones or tall ones. Blondes or brunettes. Just, whatever you do, don't marry a woman with a career”.
After reading it, I had such a strange desire to find that “Perfect Adviser” and scream: “Why?”:)))
I heard such a phrase from some men, that a marriage with professional woman can be rocky one. This marriage can be also stressful, recent studies have found professional women are more likely to get divorced, more likely to cheat and less likely to have children. And if they do have kids, they are more likely to be unhappy about it.
Actually, I suppose, that particularly successful men, are attracted to women with similar goals and aspirations. And why not? After all, your typical career girl is well educated, ambitious, informed and engaged. All seemingly good things, right?
Many factors contribute to a stable marriage, including age at first marriage, race, religious beliefs and socio-economic status. And, of course, many working women are indeed happily and fruitfully married - it's just that they are less likely to be so than nonworking women.
Now, I speak about successful women, who have their own business or achieved lots in their professional sphere. Obviously, they are self-confident and know, what they want from life and from their men…Or maybe, they even have some exact expectations on future partner. Maybe, they want too much from men.
You may ask me: “Why you decided to discuss this topic???”
The answer is simple and banal, as you could notice from my profile, I am the owner of the restaurant, so I achieved some success in my professional sphere…I don’t mean, I earn “mountains of gold” and I don’t boast:)))Just try to understand… Is it a true, that men are afraid of proposal to a woman, who earns more money, who is more successful than he is???
It’s not a secret that the traditional male role is to be the provider and protector. If a guy loses that, he may feel like he’s losing his pride. And in such case, the main goal for woman is to show him her great pride of his achievements. Many men feel like their identity is wrapped up in what they do and how much they earn. It’s an external validation of their success, and a woman who is more successful than they are may threaten how they view themselves.
To my mind, of course it depends on the man, but to feel financially superfluous is emasculating. No one wants to be reminded that he’s a failure, and I can definitely see that putting additional pressure on a relationship.
Actually, it does not matter who, man or woman, and how much money he or she earns…The most important, is sincere feelings between two people…And if they want to be together, and soon get married, they should not pay any attention on such things as money and success in professional sphere.
I know many women with a perfect career, who are in a happy long marriage…So, surely, the fact is not in money…The main secret is belief in each other, belief in a happy future together!
Dear Gentlemen, why not just to be proud of your lady, share her success, support and love her, with a prefect career or without??? We, women, don’t ask for more, just show your affection, your love, your real emotions.
So, Dear Gentlemen, I shared with you some of my thoughts…Now, it’s your turn!
Yours Natasha:)