I have been on this site close to 4 years now. I have had all kinds of experiences to say the least. Some very enticing, some not so joyous, and many that have led me to writing this blog.

I have spoken to many ladies here. Have discovered what it is to be a Slavic woman in the Ukraine or Russia. I have learned the values, traditions, and attitudes of these cultures through the many women who live them.

I have come to know what is most important to a lady on this site and what she looks for and sometimes needs in a man here. Sure most of the ladies here do not speak English. However, this does not mean she is not able to give herself fully and completely to a man she speaks to.

Every lady I have had the chance to share a bit of my time with here asks for the sincerity, the honesty, and devotion of any man she hopes to begin a relationship with. All look for trust, understanding, and communication.

All seek a man they have no doubts or questions of. A man who gives them a feeling of security and assurance their hearts and lives will not be taken for granted. I once questioned why so many ladies approached me in a way that was.... well, shall we say... sexual in nature. Why so many ladies chose to pose in lingerie in their profiles.

I discovered after speaking to most of these ladies that this is done because so many of them have little or no real experience with men. They were told or read that to do this was a very good way to attract a man's attention.

In many of the regions in the Ukraine the women outnumber the men and in this many have spent a life alone and without the comforts and experiences of having a man in their lives.

I have come to understand that spending just a little time with these ladies, their true nature comes forth. The values, the traditions, and inner beauty of these ladies shines so brightly.

I am a man who respects and treats a lady like a woman. I appreciate them for all they do and who they are inside. I see a world of beauty inside every woman and if given respect and a sincere love they will blossom like the most lovely of roses.

There is something so warming about spending an evening with a lady who is sincere and honest with you. I am in a friendship right now with a very sweet lady. She and I are taking things slowly and building a trust between us. She does not force anything and she is very happy with any time we spend with each other.

It is very nice to have a woman understand I work a lot and may not always have the funds nor the time to be here every day. She understands that in life there are things which require my attention if we are to ever have a future together. This is a woman who has made me understand and appreciate her for all the patience she gives me.

I am learning what it means to be in a relationship with a Slavic woman and all it takes to bring two very different cultures together in a growing relationship. It is very fascinating to read about her life and how the many differences between us has actually brought us so much closer.

I have discovered a very interesting world that I knew so little about and my advice to any man looking for a love here is take your time and really get to know this lovely lady you write to and chat with. Her life is a story you will come to enjoy and it will bring the two of you so many things to discuss.

Do not lose hope or think a lady is not serious with you just because they have a hard time saying just what they mean. Remember she is trying and most of the ladies are in classes to improve their English skills. Be patient and give her the understanding she may need. You will find a very beautiful relationship starting to grow if you both look beyond the little obstacles at the beginning.