Hi, there! The title of my new blog is a famous proverb I guess all over the world. Sometimes people that say"Surely, men and woman are from different planets " are right.
But what does it really mean for concrete man and woman?
Let's try to investigate this hidden meaning... There is no doubt, we are all different.It seems to me that some men and women speak on different languages like in Bible, remember "The Tower of Babel".That's why sometimes it is soooo hard to understand each other, especially in rows , when they act like stubborn rams and nobody wants to stay guilty. Psychologists consider , men and women has different perception.
Here some interesting facts for comparing...
Woman and men see differently- men has so called "tunneling vision"- they look just front themselves , just strict. But women has flank vision.
Also we hear differently, women has absolute pitch...
We feel in different ways ( men are totally logic, but women are more emotional and always take something very much to heart).
We even talk to each other differently, it depend on our physiology and mentality.
To my mind, to understand all these features, to investigate all these details, it means to do one more step to each other...It's astonishing, how much we could teach each other... Yes, we are different and it is really good.
Some time ago I asked my Dad, what did he learned from my Mom while a family life"He told me "You know, dear I learned how to FORGIVE...The ability to forgive is the most important woman's quantity. Men are always afraid of being weak.But if you can forgive, you had a real , not magic strength of mind"
Don't be afraid of difference , learn each other, make each other happy.
Elena.