The question of who should write first in letters (messages) and start a conversation often becomes an object of discussion when dating through online platforms, in messengers and even in real life. In fact, there is no universal answer to this question, as it all depends on each person's individual preferences, cultural traditions and level of communication openness.

Many supporters of traditional gender roles may believe that a man should initiate contact and be the first to write, while a woman should wait for his initiative. However, today, most people tend to have a more flexible and understanding attitude.

From the point of view of emancipation and equality of the sexes, a girl can initiate contact and start communication. This is not only a demonstration of initiative, but also a demonstration of self-confidence and readiness for an active role in the relationship. In addition, such a step can help to create an atmosphere of openness and friendliness in communication.

So, who should write first? In my opinion, it is important that this question is considered in the context of the relationship and each person's individual preferences. In some cases, the initiative may come from the man, in others - from the woman, and sometimes the beginning of communication can be the result of mutual interest and feelings of sympathy.

However, it is important to remember that politeness, respect and mutual understanding are important in any communication. Do not take a lack of response to a message as a rejection or lack of interest. Perhaps the person is just busy or doesn't see your message. Try to approach the issue of initiating communication with openness and understanding, and you may find that the initiative can come from both men and women.

Do you wait for action from the man or do you show interest first yourself?

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