I have celebrated my 30 years old anniversary and I was never married. Yes, it is me. And yes, it is true.

Now you will think… She chose career, yeah, so it is fair she is lonely. But my answer is no, you are wrong if you think so. I like to work and I earn for myself, but it never was my highest priority.
Or you think that she doesn’t need family, she likes fun and parties. Again my answer is no. I am woman whom you will not find out at club or street at night.
Now you feel that you found the truth at last! She is ugly, fat, stupid or with bad character. But one more time you are wrong. I am well-educated, all people around think that I have pleasant appearance, I visit fitness classes to be in good shape and I am nice funny girl who hate to argue and always try to smile.
What do you think now? Something unbelievable? Maybe you think I prefer women and I search for bride same as you do? No, my dear reader. I am usual woman with normal tastes and high family values. By the way, I even don’t need prince who rides white horse, because as I mentioned in the beginning I have already celebrated my 30 years old birthday and I see the life as it is without illusions.

So now let’s think together what are the reasons why normal man or woman in mature age with good values can be never married or lonely for long time after divorce or serious relationship in past. My answer is MODERN LIFE. I mean the way of life that all we have today, modern culture and habits.

I look at teens and I see that they have different from previous times dates, other ways of spending time, more than half of their teen love they show and spend online in social networks, they meet each other not in street or at swimming pool and libraries. They put likes to each other, follow pages and after when they meet in real life they make selfie and post it. I feel myself very strange in this modern world. Really. I wasn’t get used to act same way. I feel that I am lost in previous generation. Don’t you feel the same?

I get used to old fashion when man is shy to do first step, but after time of following his woman he go to her door or her in street with flower and invite her to cinema with sweet words. Or man and woman go to same café every day and day woman receives her favorite coffee and waiter says that man from other table wishes you good day. That is something romantic and something that can be beginning of strong love!

No space for this little miracles in modern life. Everywhere out people are busy with their smartphones, tablets, notebooks. Did you notice this too?
People don’t enjoy walking in street because they don’t have time for this, they prefer fast cars or buses. They don’t have time to look around and notice other lonely soul in this world.

Maybe understanding of this was your reason to come here and try to find your soulmate far from you...

I wish good luck in searching love for all in this busy modern world! ;)

Victoria