Online it's fantasy , false expectations , dreams , and more self disillusioned beliefs.
It's a great way to get an introduction to get to know someone. But it's not a life with someone!
In real life women are not going to look like super models. Perfect hair , sexy photos , and be as sexual as they are in real life.
Neither are the men going to be dreamy , perfect or this great super man !
If I ask for a real photo I mean it!
If I ask to do live video chat I mean it!
If I ask a question I want it answered not ignored !!!!
If after a period of time you have to see how invested the person is or isn't !
I'm not interested in sexy photos! I'm not interested in sex talk.
I'm not interested in how much money you have or don't have !
I'm not interested in fake hair, fake breasts, fake eye lashes , fake personalities !
I'm not interested in women who want to have me buy their love through endless gifts . Like she is a trophy to win or a prostitute .
I'm not interested in fake stories !!!
I know what life is truly like in Europe , Russia and Ukraine ! I know a lot about most cities, oblasts , villages and rural life there.
So I can tell when stories are being stretched for entertainment values!
I am interested in a woman that is strong enough, brave enough, who can bare her soul and be herself with me. No games no masks no pretending.
A beautiful woman to me can communicate on a far higher level.
She doesn't ask me stupid questions and insults my intelligence. Which offends me to know end!
A beautiful woman asks serious questions, thought provoking questions, real questions.
If your posting sex photos of yourself in your profile. Yet wondering why all men only want cheap sex chat. Your not my type of woman.
A truly beautiful woman is who she needs and wants to be with her man.
Love is where she can be that way with her man.
A LADY never posts photos that can be used against herself, her family or husband. The same goes with being a gentleman .
In real life there are no princes or princesses! So quit acting like one.
If you can cook great, if you can't that's ok to.
When a woman moves to another country it's very exciting at first! But reality sets in !
Your not going to be cleaning the house everyday , cooking great meals, having great sex every night!
So quit telling me about that !!!!!
You will get bored, home sick, lonely and frustrated with that mentality !
As a lady is making a huge sacrifice for love! She also needs to see way into her future. The future is simple!!!
You will need a job. The best job for a beginning wife to get is a low paying job.
Easy to get and work until you adapt to the culture of any country.
You can always find a better job!!!!
But would you want to go into a great job interview looking foolish? And not get the job. Having your feelings hurt . Apply every where in that city and make that impression to many future employers.
No you wouldn't !
Love is where you and your husband make a plan. That grooms you naturally into his society and culture. So it's less stressful for the both of you.
If you need more education you plan that as well.
So what is LOVE ?????
Patience , understanding, compromising , tolerance , commitment , morals , values , ethics , character , and beliefs you share equally .
It's not spark , chemistry, lust , desire, attraction , or sex!!!
I come from a long line of long term marriages not only in my family but extended family.
Love is not bought , sex is !
Love is everything you do for each other to fill your lives with happiness !