We have all been in relationships that are wonderful in the beginning that lose their luster over time. This can be more prevalent when two different cultures come together. Our vocabulary, customs, and status can cause disagreements. Being from the USA many times in the eyes of others creates an image of wealth. Not everyone in the USA is wealthy and we must diffuse this thought in the mind of others. If commonality cannot be established this is a red flag. In turn we must try to accept each others customs, if not the relationship will not survive. These red flags increase over time if there is no meetings. The more time to think in hopes of a meeting creates doubt. Don’t over react but maybe it’s time to move on.