In my previous blog I talked about the language problem. Now I wish to discuss the age issues. I receive many letters from young ladies. Some are younger than my daughter (early 30's). Other women are choosing men may be older than their fathers. It seems they do not read my profile where I state am looking for a lady older than 40 years. Needless to say I do not respond to these young ladies so as not to raise their hopes.

Those of us who experienced married life understand the importance of being in tune with the relevant generation likes and dislikes. Whether it is in fashion, music, arts and general interests. Not to mention health and longevity issues. These life choices matter after a while in any relation.

Although Ukrainian ladies accept older men, my suggestion for an age limit difference is 50% man older than the woman. So if lady is 30 years old her man should not be older than 45 years. If she is 40 his age should not be more than 60 years. This way they can accept each others desires and expectations and avoid conflict in their relation later in life.

In conclusion the big age difference matters and I urge all those lovely ladies to find a men nearer their age. I wish you all the best of luck in your search.

John