In a world where men are often expected to act first, making the first move can seem difficult for those who don't consider themselves to be decisive. However, it's important to remember that determination isn't just the ability to act, it's a state of mind. And even if you don't consider yourself determined, there are always ways to overcome this barrier and take the first step.

The first step to overcoming doubts and fears can be to realize that rejection is not the end of the world! The risk of rejection is always there, but it's important to remember that rejection is just a natural part of the process and shouldn't determine your worth!

Next, it's important to realize that an action doesn't have to be large and substantial. Even a small step forward can make a big difference. For example, starting with a simple conversation or a friendly gesture can be the perfect beginning! A great friendship can always become a great love!

Also, remember that every step requires confidence. Maintain your positive energy and believe in yourself. Remember that determination comes with practice!
- "A hello is always the beginning of something bigger!"

Lastly, be prepared for some moments to be unpredictable. Things don't always go according to plan, and that's okay. The key is to be open-minded and ready for new opportunities. Give yourself and the girl a chance to open up!

So, even if you don't think you're decisive, it's ALWAYS possible to make the first step. The important thing is to overcome your doubts, maintain your confidence and be ready for new opportunities that may open up in front of you. Happiness loves the persistent ones!

Hugs to all. Your Elsa!