I’m damn sure I couldn’t! Especially with the cost of living in most western cultures. How would you, with or without family, make ends meet….. even to just survive another day? Because that is how an unstable economy and corrupt government, has forced most in Ukraine to react, either by good means or not so good means! Most, genuinely don’t want this, but it happens through necessity! Realise what we have and understand why the “Dating Industry” has such a poor “rep” ….. I’m sure you know where I lead here. I don’t condone it, but I do understand respectfully, to a point, the creativity borne through necessity.

The question I have to ask is….. Have you ever been to Ukraine, gentlemen? If not, then stop being a “Keyboard Romeo” and get off of your butts and be a “Man of Action”. Oh and by the way, a “Man of Action” is far more respected by the ladies, due to the fact that flying half way around the world to meet them, lets them know that you are very serious in your search for love! Plus, please also remember, that no matter however many letters you exchange, when you arrive “Just be yourself” and lead! Build that respect and any connection you have already made through correspondence, to a level where trust can begin. Be aware that almost all ladies in Ukraine are not even contemplating leaving their home, family, work and friends, but when they fall deeply in love, they will follow you to the ends of the earth and back! So believe me when I say, that trust is the main. At any time, from the first date, up to and including the relationship stage, she will be asking herself, at some point, if she can trust and rely on this man to protect, love, support and provide for her and maybe her child or even children (if she has them), through good or bad, if she was to even consider moving to his country, what if it goes wrong? She will be alone in a foreign land without any help or assistance. Very frightening for her indeed, so please keep this in mind. Put yourself in the ladies position and ask yourself this question..... Would you offer yourself completely, if you were unsure of him ever returning? No you wouldn't!!! Let's say we have found our lady and are only in Ukraine for 2 weeks. What do you expect? I can tell you now..... NOTHING! Why should you? The ladies are serious in their search also and maybe on the rare occasion, true love can be found almost immediately. But generally... in 2 weeks? Then there it is! The same question! Will he return, once he flies home??? Long-distance relationships will endeavour to put obstacles in the way.....guaranteed! Dating cannot be as regular as it would be at home and misunderstandings can be rife... almost to the point of ending said relationship, unfortunately. There can be no time limits for marriage or relocating! When it happens it happens! Just make sure you return as often as you can, when you say your going to!

You can guarantee that on the first date that a first impression will always make or break! I don’t mean your looks, your weight or even how your voice sounds lol. No what I mean is…. Show her you care about yourself, your health and how you look, to present yourself. Be clean, well groomed (Clean shaven at all times), have a nice pair of shoes and for god sake, no Jeans, T-shirt or trainers/sneakers!!! After taking hours and I mean hours, to look her very best in every way for you, return the compliment. Show her that the time spent with her is as important to you too, gentlemen.

I have been to Ukraine and the experience was one of the best I have ever had, in my entire life! I experienced a fantastic, open, honest, very traditional, warm and kind culture, with an amazing History, unbelievable infrastructure, architecture and happiness for their way of life! Obviously whilst there, I also dated some extraordinary, very intelligent and oh so beautiful ladies, that just take your breath away with their “life” knowledge and wisdom beyond their years, in some cases. They cannot be fooled, I promise you, so don’t even try hahah!

One final note people! In my own opinion, Ukraine is neither a second nor third world country!!! With stability allowing growth, I am certain that she would be ranked in the top 5 Countries in the world, for Industry, Agriculture, Technology, Medicine, etc.