I read and chuckle at many of the men's posts on this site. Gentlemen this is not rocket science this is finding the right person and then falling in love. Love is no different in the USA, Ukraine. or anywhere. I have made the investment to visit the Ukraine and now I will do this for the second time in April. I found the person I want and she has found her man in me. We both realize if she lives here or me there we will be challenged but this brings us closer together, a good thing.
Secondly chats and letters do not make a relationship you must meet unless you want to spend much money and wind up with nothing. Yes this site portrays every woman as a gorgeous model and we are not use to this on USA dating sites. I do know my Ukraine woman looks as good in person as she does in photos.
While many of us look at the beauty it is the personality that eventually wins a woman over, there must be communication, connection, common interests. It has taken me much time and money to find this out with the woman I adore but in the end it was worth it for sure.
I am also sure there are both men and women here who play games but I think it is easy for this to happen as many chats start off in a sexual direction but the reality becomes evident later on and we move on. Sad but true.!!! This happens everywhere and only the lonely ones truly fall into this trap.
In the end as I said before do your research, ask for her email which you can pay for on this site and a good thing to do. In email you can write detailed letters and learn much about each other. If and when you find the woman you want, GO THERE!!! We are all mature adults and do not need to be lectured on how to date an international woman. I have been to 17 countries in my life and it is not that difficult nor do I need someone to tell me how to approach a woman. Yes I am very confident and yes I made the investment to go to the Ukraine and it was worth it all because I found what I want. Good Luck to all.Ф