1.They are men.🥰
The terrible truth is that a woman needs, first of all, a MAN. And the attributes of a real man are everything listed in this list. We are not saying, of course, that young men are not men, but there is a difference in how mature they are from the point of view of women, compared to older and more experienced men. There are, of course, happy exceptions among young men, but it is known that exceptions only confirm the rule.
2. Sometimes you just fall in love❤️❤️
In fact, you can fall in love with anyone, and age is not a determining factor here. Love, as they say, is submissive to all ages, and the feelings of a 19-year-old girl for a 40-year-old man can be as strong as the feelings of another 19-year-old girl for a 19-year-old guy. Relationships are relationships; love is love. There's nothing you can do about it.
3. They decided and took place in life🥰😘
For a woman, one of the benefits of dating an older man is that she can judge how successful he is in life. Some girls simply don’t have the patience to be with someone who doesn’t have serious goals and objectives in life. It’s sad when a man has zero ambitions, and his job is such that he can’t even provide for himself, let alone a partner.With a man who knows what he wants in life, you don't have to wonder "what if...". This kind of relationship is stress-free and gives you plenty of opportunity to simply enjoy each other's company.
4. You feel protected 😍😍
Being with a man older than you means feeling “like behind a stone wall.” Yes, yes, this is the same notorious search for the image of a father in men. An older man protects and supports you; with him you can allow yourself to be a fragile woman. Nobody says you can't feel this way with a partner your age, but with a mature man these feelings intensify. At the end of the day, every woman wants a man to love, protect and respect her.
5.You don’t have to wait for him to “grow” to your level👀👀
It is a known fact that boys mature much, much later than girls. Therefore, it is difficult to blame a girl for not wanting to wait until her boyfriend gets out of adolescence. It's hard to take seriously a guy who acts more like your son than an equal partner. A mature man has already left this phase and does not want to return there. Equality of minds is also an important part of relationships. So, if you have to choose between a guy who only cares about skateboarding and partying, and a partner who is mature in every way... the choice is obvious.
6. They are real gentlemen😌😌
Mature men know how to conquer a woman: they usually behave with women like true gentlemen.Not only do they not expect you to have sex on the first date, they actually court you, and at the same time they don’t have time for those games that young guys love to play, either refusing commitment or expressing readiness for it. The "gentlemanly" aspect is one of the main reasons why girls prefer older men: women want someone who carries himself with dignity and doesn't cause drama.
7.Usually they are looking for long-term relationships🙃😉
Older men value serious relationships. Maybe the fact is that they are looking for reassurance that they will not be abandoned or betrayed (especially if they have already had such experience). A long-term relationship is much better than something uncertain, and mature, wise men know this better than anyone. Yes, some young men do not want commitment at all and expect only fun and pleasure from relationships; unfortunately, women have a different opinion on this matter, and it usually coincides with the opinions of older men.