From the first line of Ray Charles’ widely known song we hear ‘You give your hand to me, and then you say hello, but you don’t know me’. And so, as we chat here and send the letters to each other, no one really thinks he would know the partner better until we meet in the real life. As the matter of fact, most people here have overcome much obstacles and disappointments, and so they want to give a chance to something they’ve never experienced. And we manage. But who seems to be more sincere in such in-silico relationship – a man or a woman?
From the first view, all women are kind and open-hearted. Men are charmed how open-minded, intelligent, surprisingly humorous are women! They know how to maintain a conversation, have lots of interests, and make thoughtful decisions about their future. However, men still feel a bit confused about what would turn out when they meet.
The rightful thing to implement hides among the questions that men can ask their pan pal girlfriends at first. For example, what about replacing the statement ‘I am looking for a sincere kind woman’? Use your psychology, be a man! You may ask whatever questions you want to find out the sincerity of your woman. ‘What is the most embarrassing moment you’ve ever experienced?’, ‘How did you use to talk with your first boyfriend?’, ‘Have you ever got fired?’, or ‘5 things you don’t like about your parents?’. All these questions may not only show the level of your partner’s sincerity, but also learn some points about your mate that built his or her personality, and with which you may be dealing in the future.
The men, who are not that sincere according to the statistics, still have propensity to open their hearts to women who they will call friend. A ‘friend’ here doesn’t actually mean platonic relationships. To find a friend in a woman here means to get the full understanding of her goals, desires. At the same time, these women have to show not only the full empathy and willing to stay with the man, but also spiritually catch the content and the mood of her man.
You can apply for any other tips on disclosing your partner’s (in)sincerity, which is the actually the most valuable prerequisite of building long-lasting relationships distantly. Don’t lose your grit!