I have one good friend who believes that we women try to be beautiful only in order to please others, particularly men. In her opinion this is the impetus and the ultimate goal of our efforts. Personally I fundamentally disagree with that!.. Certainly true what they say: "how many people - so many opinions", well I have a different understanding of this issue. Personally, I believe that each of us (regardless of gender differences) lives for themselves, and tasks that a person puts in front of him, in the end should benefit him personally. It is clear that each of us is surrounded by people: relatives, friends, colleagues and others, and we all sincerely want that they were happy with us. Well, how can we make people happy, if we don't experience this feeling within yourself??? From this it follows, first for themselves - and then people ... So I came to the conclusion that all our actions are supposed to bring pleasure to yourself! This applies not only appearance, but also work, Hobbies, socializing. Only in this way we become happy and satisfied. As a result, we obtain the self-confidence and a clear understanding of their future actions. But the happiness inside us has the radiation and don't need to make any special efforts to the surrounding saw him and felt... Happy person visible to the naked eye and only such a person can attract into your life reliable friends, interesting work, exciting events, etc. So do not waste your time to please others. Start with yourself - this is important !!!
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With warm feelings and best wishes, Anna