For example, they argue repeatedly over the same issues for years. Even if one partner acknowledges their responsibility, the other might say, "Listen, that's your problem, I'm fine..." or completely ignore it, thinking, "A conflict happened, so what? Why analyze it?"

If you're unhappy with a person's fundamental principles, views, and worldview, it means you've chosen the wrong person for you. 💕

Of course, people can't agree on everything, but there are basic things that should be compatible and shared between partners. 👫

If we don't accept the other person as an individual with their fundamental principles and try to change them because they don't suit us, we hinder their development, their pursuit of their goals, and their desire to be who they want to be. ❤️

In this way, we also fail to develop ourselves, wasting our energy on trying to change someone else and holding them back, which results in double futility. 😒

Remember this simple truth: people choose you to unite their life and future with yours. Entering a relationship with you, as materialistic as it may sound, they want to feel good with you on various levels. Each of us enters new relationships with what we bring with us. 😘

If you bring codependency, blame, criticism, control, and manipulation from old relationships, you'll fill all your new relationships with these same issues. 😓

But if you bring love, trust, joy, and freedom, you'll fill your relationships with these positive qualities. It's quite simple—what you plant is what you reap. One of the biggest mistakes, in my opinion, is choosing someone for a relationship and then trying to change them. 💖

It makes you wonder, "Why choose someone and then try to change them?" 🤔🤔🤔

People do this out of fear of loneliness, insecurity, and a sense of inadequacy, which makes them choose, for example, shoes that are too small and then try to stretch them. Without realizing it, people jump from one relationship to another for years, hoping to find something different, only to repeat the same patterns over and over. ❤️