I feel you are pretty close to being on the money on how a man loves. I think the translation of your blog is a little difficult to follow. A man is attracted by the outer beauty, but when a woman opens her mouth sometimes that can change her attractiveness. If she is friendly with people who are in need, but can show even more interest in her man, that is a big plus. Making the attempt to understand his interests and letting her man contribute his feelings about her interests, is a great basis for building on a relationship that can take the knocks and bruises with the good times. - Jerry