Historically, the man was the head of the family, the earner, who went to hunt mammoths, get food, protect their lands, while the woman created coziness in the house, led the house staffs, raised children. Everything was clear. Roles are distributed and everyone fulfills their duties. After 1909, when women took to the streets in New York with protests and certain demands, the process of equalizing the rights of women and men began.
Today in our country, a woman is acting not just in one sphere of life but almot in all. She is a house-wife and a businesswoman, (and she may have more than one job), and the teacher for her children, to all this, she knows how to repair the valve and change the bulb. Today, women have evolved so much that it seems that nothing is impossible for them. But despite her diverse talents and strengths, such a woman needs a man, a defender, a strong shoulder, a friend who will listen, understand, support. And she in return will envelop him with even greater love and care, give him moments of happiness and forever deprive anxiety and feelings of disappointment.
But the question is, where is such kind of man?
Is the desire for happiness and love above dignity? Is the groundless promises of the first one passsing man is a reason to rush into the pool, take serious steps? And what steps can we talk about when sitting in a warm house with a cup of coffee, a man writes: "I'm waiting for you my beloved, take a visa, buy tickets and fly to me, I'll love you my whole life" - knowing nothing about the woman, about her desires, her dreams and without telling anything about himself. Desperate times require for desperate actions on the woman side?
«That's just the question is solved» — men think. It turns out that a man and a finger will not move to do anything for the sake of a woman. Why can not you prove your right to be called a man, come and conquer a woman, create a romantic mood and show the seriousness of his intentions. If this is so hard, then what is the point of choosing this particular way of searching for a beloved woman? In a virtual world, relations can't be build, only the real world, real meetings will show true us.
After such a step, a man who came to her and did not encroach upon her body with thoughts or actions (which often happens, in such cases the interpreter, to whom the woman turnes for help, is not only an assistant in overcoming the language barrier, but also a guarantor of security), woman will confidently take steps toward man. Because, as many of us had time to be convinced, not everyone is capable of such exploits. And those who are not capable, spill out all their negative on women, accusing them in their own incompetence.
It's not a game or purchase of a ticket, it's really responsible process, it's international relations — love relations, which can't be created in two, three weeks or half a year. Both sides are representatives of different cultures, traditions, educations and opposite views and we need time to combine it in right way for not crying after making serious steps.
Yet, strong men exist and each of us will find him, that only one who will overcome kilometers for the sake of your smile and the opportunity to take your hand. In this minute, you can prove to him that it was worth it, that from now he will be loved and happy, that he made the right choice!

Lyuda.