You look too young and you are probably expected to spend 10 000 dollars for nothing. It means you can be regarded by an old man like a girl who likes money and that's all. What about your inner world or other intentions? No one of those who treat you like a blond girl will dive into your thoughts. They will pass by. You may ask why, so the answer is the following. He sees your beauty and it is not enough for him to write you and make conclusions on the basis of communication. There are exceptions, of course, but still...
You are an old guy. Not so strong physically due to the age, but a your true 29-year-old woman, your soulmate, will also pass by. Why? Just because she sees her grandpa...
People should treat people the want to be treated.