The mistaken opinion of every adult man that he is God and that he can do as he wants, because he is older and more experienced, baggage and stable in income. But not every woman is stupid and ready to obey and as practice proves children are always much more competent than their parents, so a young woman is not stupid.
Older men like to exaggerate their importance in the relationship, why? Because the young girl has a great choice, and they have, alas, it is already much less.
Older men always give a lot of promises and in the hope that the young foolish girl will believe now and forget when already will be in his networks.
The main mistake of men who are looking for a girl 30-40 years younger, is that they do not underestimate her intelligence and think that she is a silly little child.
And it's a pity that many older men want to be loved, but they no longer love them.
If an older man starts to see a younger girl as a person and not just for her looks, it will work out!