Do you know what happens when they tell you: “You’re not like everyone else!”? And this is not a compliment. In my case, the phrase “you are so informal” sounded almost like a sentence. But why not? In fact, our perception is often limited by cliches and stereotypes. I have always been “the one” who does not fit into the generally accepted framework. And honestly, sometimes it felt like my personality and appearance were two different planets.

Yes, I don’t look like that ideal blonde “cover girl” or “trend model”. My style is far from meeting fashion standards. And the result is guys who rush towards other ladies as soon as they hear the word “unusual”. Because of this, did I meet men who were willing to explore my true self? Of course yes! And they were, you know, quite nice.

Maybe someone really thinks that our appearance can become an obstacle to a real relationship. But that's not true. We often build our own wall of preconceived notions, ignoring people who might surprise us. Isn’t it funny that sometimes those who can give us the most sincere emotions go unnoticed, just because we ourselves have stuck a sign on ourselves that says “this is not for me”?

Don't be afraid to open up, even if you don't meet conventional standards of beauty or behavior. After all, as practice shows, something more can be hidden behind the façade. And if a person simply missed the chance to get to know you because he could not overcome superficial barriers, then perhaps he does not deserve your attention.

And remember, sometimes those who seem to be different from your ideal may turn out to be the best life partners. So go ahead, try new things and don’t be afraid to be yourself!