When we discuss the ideal relationship, we often hear that we need to put our partner first. This advice seems wise and noble: if we do everything for our partner, it will ensure harmony and happiness. But what if I told you that this idea may not be as straightforward as it seems?

Personally, I had to face a situation where I was entirely focused on satisfying my partner’s needs, forgetting about my own desires and interests. Not only did it drain me, but it also created imbalance in my relationships. The partner I was trying to please began to take it for granted, and soon the relationship began to fall apart at the seams.

What do you think about putting your partner first? How does this really work in your relationship? It often feels like it's not only a daunting task, but also a potential trap in which you can lose yourself.

I'd like to hear your opinion. How do you deal with this in your relationships? Do you have similar experience? Write to me, write your stories to discuss your thoughts and your life experiences that clearly do not compare with mine, I am only 33. Maybe together we can find the answer to this difficult question.

Your opinion matters and I look forward to hearing your stories and thoughts!

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