Let's take a few moments to ponder the realities of life. There are inevitable events that no matter how much you exercise, how much of the right foods you eat, and all the fussing over beauty you do are going to happen. They are unavoidable!
What events am I speaking of ladies? Getting older and losing that elasticity you had in your younger age. I understand that men love with their eyes, well a vast majority do anyways. It has become a must for women throughout history to look good for her man. You sacrifice your ability to breathe as you slide into that tight dress. Sacrifice your safety to wear those heels for us. Spend hours in salons getting your hair just perfect, your nails done just to please us. You sit in front of a mirror and apply creams, foundations, rouge, and lipstick just so we will appreciate your beauty.

WHY????

There are so many men in this world who constantly tell you that you are at your most beautiful first thing in the morning. When the "natural" beauty that is you shines so elegantly. To see you when your hair is a pile, and your eyes are not quite opened and you wear a robe and slippers. That ladies is the most beautiful sight to a man. I cannot speak for all men, but I just do not understand why you ladies go through so much for us when in reality we just want you to be yourselves.
When will you ladies truly understand that your outer beauty is not what we are looking at. It is your inner beauty that attracted you to us and that is never going to fade, wrinkle, or lose it's appeal over time. All that makes you a woman is not on the outside! It is your soul, your heart, and your mind that makes you who you are.
Yes a beautiful woman on the outside is a lovely site to behold, but life and time will eventually change you. Spending all the time you do worrying over what the world thinks of you and not what the one man in your life does is a worry you need to let go of. It truly amazes me the lengths you ladies will go to just to make yourselves look good for those who really do not matter in your life.
There is a saying and I quote it now. "To the world you are just one person, but to one person you are the whole world!" Now who in your eyes and mind is the one you really need to think of pleasing?
I was asked in a letter what would happen if this young and beautiful women ever lost her beauty? What if some tragic event caused her to lose her shapely figure and beautiful looks? What if she lost everything, money, business and home? Would I stay with her if we were married?
Why would anyone ever ask such a question? Are men so fickle today that all that matters is his wife's beauty and fortune? If so then those men need to reevaluate what love means to them! Love does not look at beauty on the outside. It does not look at fame, fortune, and notoriety! It looks at the soul and that soul becomes entwined within his. That soul becomes his reason to be, his reason to live!
Any man who deserts his wife because she is no longer beautiful, has no wealth or a business is a man who never loved her for anything but this! This is a man who loves himself and his life is all about having a woman with beauty beside him. To make himself look better and gain all he has because of her beauty.
So ladies when a man tells you that you are beautiful when you are just getting out of bed. Then know he is a man who is looking at your soul and not just your looks! To this man your beauty comes from the fact he loves you for all you do for him. All you make him feel and all he is because of you. You are beautiful to him because you love him and make him very happy.
Do not worry about what the world thinks of you and says you must look like for it. The world is not going to stick with you through thick and thin and see your inner beauty like the man you married does!
To the women who ask their man what would be if I lost everything I say this. If it takes him more then a few seconds to tell you "it would not matter" then you are with the wrong man! True love does not desert a woman no matter what may be. Wealth, beauty, and businesses can be lost. A soul of a woman is eternal. That is what makes you all so beautiful.