Men are not like women!!!
Think of it like shopping. A woman goes into a store see's a dress. But still has to go several stores and look at all the dresses there. Then goes back and buys the first dress she saw. That she loved.
Men go into a store see what they like, want or need. Get it, then leave. That's it!
Women will pay a insane amount of money for that right dress or make up .
Men will know the value of what the item is worth. Because men have researched it out through friends, online, or other resources. So a man puts a dollar amount in his head. He might spend a few dollars more. But not much more than that. Or he will leave and go some where else.
If that tool or object is still priced to high. He will rent or borrow from another.
Men are not foolish about resources and money.
They place strong limits on everything.
The only man who doesn't means he's not fully invested into you.
A man should not be going into debt to win your heart! That's just foolishness!
A man should not go broke trying.
If he is that foolish with his money. That he can't say that's enough. Think of your life with him? You'll both be broke living on the street! Not smart or clever for either one of you!
I know a lady from Ukraine who is married to a guy I know. He showered her with everything to win her heart.
Well she moved here got married. Soon after marriage he got nervous took another job. He was working 2 jobs and not spending time with her always working. Her adjustment to our country was difficult because he was always working. One day she asked him why he had to work so much. He confessed he put their entire relationship, communication on credit. Just to prove he loved her sincerely. Even though that was sweet it was not wise.
It made her life difficult in her adjusting to a new country, culture and daily life.
She ended up getting a job and together they worked years to pay off those debts.
I met her through my employer I was a coach, trainer for all new hirers .
After a while she told me why she chose this job. Opened up to me about everything. Long story short! I actually knew who her husband was. I explained to him in details how frustrated she was.
They worked out all their problems.
They had a difficult times at first. But they worked through it. And are very happy married.
Teaching English to many Eastern Europeans . I've learned a lot from the women there over the years.
It just doesn't happen in one country but in all countries. Where men over spend themselves on love and end up in debt with that woman.
So if a man puts limits on writing you, sending gifts, calling, or anything !
Please realize he has the intelligence to know his limits. So you be grateful for that.
Most women who move to another country looking for love should be very interested in this.
If he has endless resources of money?
Why is he even on this site ? He has women all around him trying to land him.
Good women bad women, young women , endless stream of women if he is rich.
The question for you should be?
Why can't he find a young hot intelligent woman there? Because he should if his pockets are so deep!!!
Or he's that successful everyone around him knows him.
That's a cold hard fact!!! If he can't find a woman near him. Chances are he wants a trophy or he doesn't respect women, or it's all about the chase for him. Once the chase is over he gets bored with you!
A man who says no, places limits, knows who he is in life! A man who doesn't place limits doesn't know who he is yet.
Using daddies money doesn't count either.
If your love is based on how much he spends on you. Your a gold digger !!!
No one in his family or friends or neighbors will respect you for being one.
It's called karma!!!!
If he can buy you ? He will buy your replacement once you refuse to do what he says. A younger better girl will replace you!
Because you committed yourself to slavery of his wallet.
So respect a man's limitations!
Everyone has a bad month, months or year. Where things can be financially demanding on them. Doesn't matter if your a man or woman.
Even if you own a business . You have good and bad years in business . That's life you live with it.