Why do partners cheat on each other??
So many broken hearts and disappointed hopes...80% of people know what betrayal is. Some experienced it easily, while others remembered it for the rest of their lives.
So why do people cheat??
MY name is Elena and I am a practicing psychologist.
Many couples and partners come to me separately, with one question: “Why did LOVE leave?
Those feelings that were at the beginning, passion, attraction..." and the second question: "Or maybe it was not love, but a mistake?"
To everyone who is asking this question now, I have an answer for you...
Love is not passion, love is silence.
I am 100% sure of what I will say next; this is not a theory, this is many years of practice.
Nobody teaches young couples that passion lasts for a maximum of 5 years. This is what everyone calls love, those butterflies in the stomach are nothing more than the action of adrenaline that is released when meeting a new person, because our body perceives everything new as danger.
Your passion will fade, I’m sure of it... no more than 5 years will pass.
And at this stage, many questions arise, and many betrayals, because people begin to look for passion again.
I’ll tell you for sure: if you leave for your lover or mistress and destroy your family, then everything will repeat itself, 4...5 years and again you will understand that there are no feelings. But besides, you will be tormented by a feeling of guilt for the pain that experienced by your partner in a past relationship.
What's the solution?
When you don’t feel passion, learn to love your peace... this is true love... when you know your partner better than yourself, when you feel calm and at ease with him, when there is no constraint in intimacy and you know exactly what she or he likes...and even if you have sex 2 times a month... and not several times every day... but besides sex, you have that closeness and understanding of each other that was not there at the beginning of the relationship.
YOU can also make your relationships more beautiful. YOU work to get an education or get a good salary at work. So why did you decide that you don’t need to work on the most important thing in your life - relationships?
Make surprises...women wear beautiful lingerie, men give flowers, help each other, support, be proud of each other. And believe me, your love will bloom as a beautiful flower.