Life, nowadays, is so uncertain, it's like we have to take a gamble in meeting genuine people. The world has set certain standards on "ideal" people. You have to be beautiful, with a fabulous body (female). You have to have a reasonable amount of money in your "pocket", drive a reasonable car and own your own home (male). But all of these things blind us to the real people, who are sincere, honest, caring, loving, etc. I might not look like Brad Pitt, but I might be more sincere in my approach to people. They say that you do not judge a book by it's cover, but it's contents. Don't bother with what the cover looks like, just go ahead and read it, you may end up enjoying its story.

So, in our search for partners, whether male or female, let's be guided by the genuine "stuff" and avoid the "window dressing". I enjoy being on this site, it is filled with beautiful women of all sizes and shapes, so it makes it very difficult to make choices. The trick is in reading the introductions and getting a "feel" of what the person is about. Does he/she genuinely want to find someone to start a relationship with or is there some ulterior motive. There is no "gauge" or other measurement to determine that, so you have to go with your heart or "gut instinct." I'm not here to put a damper on anyone's search, just to say, "Happy hunting" and wish everyone success.

Kenrick.