The worlds full of cultures and beliefs many founded in the dawn of time,

So typical patient with excessive lying ( a common symptom of many mental disorders)( psychopathy and antisocial, narcissistic, and histrionic personality disorders etc ), and of course exhibiting persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs, create a mental fantasy in which they believe their entitled to everything and end up believing their own lies.

We all believe

Fairy tales are what parents tell children many rehashing cultural beliefs A typical Russian fairy tale hero is a prince saving some helpless damsel

ok so whats this to do with seeking love from this web site , its not hard to see that many women still believe in fairy tales seeing a husband as a one stop marry-me now and solve all my life issue type logic , unfortunately its a fantasy , The sad reality is more than half will divorce with 5 years due to unrealistic expectations and the only one whose going to save you from the world is yourself



While a husband /wife family can add value and love to our lives (if we let them) , they by no means make our lives complete , and personalities are complex creatures and as humans we are all full of faults , likewise relationships take a lot of work from both sides to maintain and keep love alive.


So what is more realistic to expect from a partner and how far do i drop my standards to accommodate reality , the answer may surprise you , its was once said its wiser to seek a loving and happy partner , for at least then your have a loving happy family


Thanks for reading

Graham