This is discouraging and can make you doubt your communication abilities. But I'm here to help! I believe that a few right steps can make a big difference, and I need your feedback to make sure that my advice actually works in practice.

Let's start with the standard "hello" or "how are you?" rarely makes a girl want to continue the conversation. Instead, try to find something special in her profile or photos that can be a starting point for dialogue. For example, if you notice that she is beautiful, you can start with the phrase: “Wow, you are so beautiful, how long has it been since you went to the spa?!” Girls love to talk about themselves.

Show that you are truly interested in getting to know her as a person. Ask questions that go beyond standard topics. For example: “How close were you with your father” or “How were your relationships with boys at school?” Questions like these help create a deeper connection and show that you are interested in the person.

Avoid comments that could be perceived as rude or inappropriate. Compliments on appearance are good, but they should be appropriate and not based solely on appearance. Try focusing on personality traits or hobbies that you notice. For example: “You look very cheerful in your photos. I love it when people glow with happiness like that!”

Nothing attracts more than sincerity. Don't try to appear to be someone you are not. Share your real interests and passions, be open and honest. If you are genuinely interested in a person, it will show and help build a strong connection.

Now I want to ask you to test these tips in practice. Try to change your approach and write to the girl based on the recommendations offered. Let me know your results - what worked and what didn't. Your feedback will help me improve my advice and make it even more effective.

Thanks for reading my blog! I hope my tips will help you find a common language with girls and create truly interesting and valuable connections. I look forward to your stories and comments!

Lana