Almost every young woman lives with the phrase "I want to get married.
"But if you've been waiting for that "special" day for a long time, and the miracle still doesn't happen,
you should think about what you're doing wrong or what's actually hiding behind such an "innocent" dream.

The desire to solve problems or realize your goals

No matter what, a woman often tries to solve her financial problems through her husband.
High dreams of an expensive car, opening your own business set cruel criteria for your future husband.
As a result, the search for a partner becomes quite difficult, drags on, sometimes for years.

Desire to live separately from parents

Getting married is also difficult if the question of independence and independence from parents comes to the fore. In this case, the priority in choosing a partner becomes the availability of own square meters or the financial potential to purchase them. If the partner does not have a home, he automatically "flies by". And if it wasn't sad - indifferent to great and sincere feelings. So, the search continues…

The desire to become "the best version of yourself"

It seems to the bride-to-be that as soon as a partner appears, she will blossom, her eyes will shine and life will be filled with colors. In her fantasies, she will become slimmer, dress more attractively and cook healthy food...
But reality is sometimes cruel. And the bride in it - she is too lazy to go to the gym, dine at fast food and wear her favorite comfortable jeans because it's faster/easier.

The desire to fill free time and space

It also happens that dreams about married life are a banal way to fill your free time. Dreams about marriage are related to how she will spend evenings and weekends with her family. When the partner stays late at work, asks for free time for himself or for his hobby, the woman ends the relationship with a lack of understanding. For himself,
he explains this by the fact that the man selfishly puts his own interests first....