Hello dear readers!

When I was 20, I thought that I could easily understand men. But, as it turns out, some things remain difficult even at this age. I came across situations when it seemed that men were not very serious in their intentions, they were all much older than me and I blindly trusted them, but I couldn’t figure out whether it was just my fears or really some kind of game.

One day I started dating a man over 60 who seemed perfect. We spent a lot of time together, discussed plans for the future and it seemed that he was ready for something more. But suddenly everything changed. At first he began to disappear, then his messages became rare and distant. I decided that maybe he was just busy. But I began to suspect more and more that maybe this was not just busyness, but some kind of game.

Now I understand that my feelings often clouded my common sense. One day I realized that I need to learn to distinguish the signs when a man is not in the mood for a serious relationship. Here are some tips that helped me figure it out:

1. Lack of Future Plans: If your partner constantly avoids talking about the future, it could be a sign that he doesn't see you in his life long-term.

2. Rare and unstable contacts: When he appears in your life only out of mood and never takes the initiative to create stability, this could be a signal.

3. Lack of support: If he doesn't support you during difficult times and doesn't show interest in your well-being, perhaps his interest is not that deep.

I want to hear your opinion: how do you determine when a man is serious and when he is playing? What signs help you distinguish sincerity from manipulation? Share your stories and tips with me!

I hope my experience and advice will help you avoid unnecessary disappointment and find what you are really looking for. Be wise and don't let your emotions cloud your decisions!

See you in the next post!

Lana