I decided that I wanted change and once I did it, I didn’t think about whether I should indicate my real name. At that moment, it seemed to me that the pseudonym added a little mystery and protection. However, over time, I began to notice that the game of anonymity was turning against me.

It all started with the fact that the men I interacted with often acted as if our communication was just a game. Their messages were full of flippancy, superficial compliments and insincere questions. I realized that many perceived my pseudonym as a sign that I was not in the mood for serious communication. Perhaps they too felt that behind the fictitious name was hiding something temporary and not worthy of deep attention.

One day I decided to try something different. I changed my profile to Find Bride and used my real name. It immediately became clear that this decision was the right one. Soon after, I noticed that the messages I began to receive became more thoughtful, personal, and sincere. People began to see me as a real person, and not just another profile on a dating site. I felt the barrier created by the pseudonym disappear, and in its place there was room for real communication.

Using my real name on Find Bride has allowed me to not only meet people who are serious, but also to feel more confident and genuine myself. I stopped hiding behind fictional images and allowed myself to be myself. This simple change changed my experience on the site for the better.

Of course, everyone chooses their own path, and everyone has their own reasons for using pseudonyms.

In conclusion, the best way to find what you are looking for is to be honest from the very beginning, starting with your name. Lana Banana

A frank story about how honesty and stereotypes can affect fateful acquaintances.

When I filled out the application form on Find Bride, I was faced with an unexpected dilemma: what profession should I indicate? Engineering is my main job, requiring deep knowledge, perseverance and analytical thinking. But I suddenly wondered if this could scare away potential acquaintances? After all, many, unfortunately, still perceive engineering as a “male” profession. Be that as it may, this is my truth, my pride, but for a second I thought, what if I should emphasize my hobby - a manicurist? This is also part of me, part of my creative nature.

Of course, you can highlight your hobbies in your profile description, and I indicated that I love creating beauty with my own hands. But in the “profession” column, I decided to be honest - I’m an engineer. Why hide that part of myself that is so important and defines my life? However, doubts still remain - will this become a barrier? After all, on a dating site we are all looking for understanding and support, but is it important for someone that I can not only design complex systems, but also create an elegant manicure?

Probably, such thoughts are familiar to many women, especially those who combine different roles and talents.

After all, life is too short to pretend to be someone else. Perhaps someone will see me as just an engineer, while others will see that same creative soul who loves to create beauty around herself. Thank you Find Bride for the opportunity to find someone who will understand and accept me with all my facets and hobbies.

Lana BananaWhy I gave up my pseudonym on Find Bride: The story of one mistake

By hiding behind a pseudonym, we miss the chance for real communication. Find out why?


I decided that I wanted change and once I did it, I didn’t think about whether I should indicate my real name. At that moment, it seemed to me that the pseudonym added a little mystery and protection. However, over time, I began to notice that the game of anonymity was turning against me.

It all started with the fact that the men I interacted with often acted as if our communication was just a game. Their messages were full of flippancy, superficial compliments and insincere questions. I realized that many perceived my pseudonym as a sign that I was not in the mood for serious communication. Perhaps they too felt that behind the fictitious name was hiding something temporary and not worthy of deep attention.

One day I decided to try something different. I changed my profile to Find Bride and used my real name. It immediately became clear that this decision was the right one. Soon after, I noticed that the messages I began to receive became more thoughtful, personal, and sincere. People began to see me as a real person, and not just another profile on a dating site. I felt the barrier created by the pseudonym disappear, and in its place there was room for real communication.

Using my real name on Find Bride has allowed me to not only meet people who are serious, but also to feel more confident and genuine myself. I stopped hiding behind fictional images and allowed myself to be myself. This simple change changed my experience on the site for the better.

Of course, everyone chooses their own path, and everyone has their own reasons for using pseudonyms.

In conclusion, the best way to find what you are looking for is to be honest from the very beginning, starting with your name. Lana Banana