I'm sorry for your experience, makes me feel bad, being a man. But remember, one bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch, nor four bad apples as in your case. Sometimes you wonder if some men came from a mother, or if they have sisters or other female relatives. To me, women are like the flowers that beautify the garden (world) and should be treated delicately, loved and nurtured. I cannot find myself disrespecting women, whomever they may be. Men......be gentlemen on this site, respect the ladies, don't be obnoxious. KenMitch