Let’s dive into why that happens. 🤔

If a relationship has no conflicts, it’s likely that disagreements are being swept under the rug, and what bothers one partner is being "swallowed" (because it's impossible for everything to always be perfect). 🙄

The more we fear conflicts, the more passive aggression builds up in the relationship. When you suppress your true feelings, frustration starts to accumulate, creating tension between partners. This irritation may come out through sarcasm or minor remarks, and over time, it can lead to emotional coldness in the relationship. 🫣

Gradually, trust starts to erode, eventually leading to disappointment.

True relationships require courage—the courage to be imperfect, the courage to express your real feelings, even if the other person might not like it. The more you avoid conflict, the further you drift from the authentic and real. ❤️

In my view, it’s better not to fear conflicts or try to prevent them, but instead to learn how to resolve them constructively.

When you face conflict and embrace it, you create the conditions for the growth and development of your relationship.

If a conflict is handled constructively, it reveals underlying contradictions, bringing them into the open.

Resolving conflict leads partners to clearer boundaries. 💕

Additionally, conflict helps:

✔️ relieve tension,
✔️ unite you by revealing important values about each other, and
✔️ bring you closer together. Conflict is about honesty—it’s a chance to show your true self and dive deeper into the relationship.

Don’t be afraid of conflict! It doesn’t destroy relationships; it opens the door to genuine connection and helps you discover who you truly are through the clash of two realities.

Remember, in a conflict with your partner, there can be no "winner." And if there is, the relationship loses—and so do both of you.

Wishing everyone love! 💗