Perhaps you also experience this insecurity. I am 51 years old, a nurse, and I am currently looking for my soulmate. Despite all my efforts, sometimes it seems that happiness eludes me.

Perhaps it is not that there is something wrong with us, but rather how we perceive ourselves and our expectations. We can be too self-critical or, conversely, set too high standards for potential partners.

I have noticed that many of us often repeat the same mistakes: we are afraid to be vulnerable or hide our true feelings.

So what am I doing wrong? Perhaps I am too focused on searching and miss the moments when I can simply enjoy life and communication? Perhaps it is worth trusting my intuition more and allowing myself to be happy now, regardless of the presence of a partner?

And you, dear readers, have you found your lady? Or are you still searching?

Svetlana