Dear Men! This blog is for you from the beginning to its’ end. I want to tell you what is necessary, important and appreciated by us, ladies!)) Please, read it carefully and maybe my lines will help you become better or will help you to understand your mistakes in previous relations, who knows)) Do not take it as offense. Just enjoy reading…So I would like to talk about men and features which ladies simply cannot resist. And first one will be sense of humor. Humor is a social aphrodisiac, and it’s pretty much universally attractive. Humor is something people are often blessed with from birth, but it is possible to work on being funnier, too. Men who care about the world around them are irresistible to plenty of women. Compassion, motivation and selflessness are attractive qualities in anyone, but it doesn’t really matter whether the cause you care about is racial justice, feminism or environmental causes, women will notice that you are passionate about something beyond yourself, and that’s appealing; particularly to women who also have a social conscience. Smart guys have a certain gravitas that draws women into their orbits, and women know they won’t be bored around a smart guy — unless, of course, he’s insufferably condescending and stuffy about his smarts. Genuinely thoughtful, caring and selfless men are widely adored and have no trouble meeting (and keeping) women. It’s hard to resist someone who has a killer talent, whether that’s music, drawing, skating, or, really, anything done to a high level of expertise. Generosity is an appealing quality in anyone, but it doesn’t have to be tied to traditional gender roles, or even to money. You can be generous in other ways: with your time, with compliments, or with the positivity and good energy you bring to situations. Sensitive guys get a bit of a bad rap in the mainstream media. They’re often dismissed as being too feminine, soft or “gay”, but in reality, women go nuts for men with a sensitive side. Men who take care of appearance, scent and personal grooming, and men who put in a touch more effort than most are usually rewarded with a bit more female attention. So, if you have been told you have gorgeous eyes or sexy legs, those are worthwhile things to have in your arsenal of attractive qualities, too.
So, whatever it is that’s good about you — your sense of style, your wit, your in-depth knowledge of bee colonies or your ability to bench press a small car — someone will be delighted by that, and she just might be the woman of your dreams. A lot of relationship advice exhorts you to simply “be yourself”, and that’s partly true, but it’s important not to rest on your laurels; instead, you want to be the best possible version of yourself. Hone your talents, brush up on your sensitivity, brush your hair, and bask in the adoring attention of women everywhere — or, at least, one somewhere!
Good luck in meeting and keeping ladies))))
Alena