It turns out that being married can be a little... confused. When every time you go to the store is a quest, and in the evening whole battles unfold in the kitchen for an extra spoonful of jam. Where did that charming romantic go, who wrote poetry under the moon? Now you won't recognize him behind the counter with potatoes and carrots. Instead of poetry, we now have dialogues from the series: "Have you eaten all the dumplings?"
But let's not dramatize! As they say, every married life is a novel with a sequel, and it depends on us whether we will be sad over the pages, or laugh heartily. And even laughing through tears - this, as they say, is generally the highest level of family happiness!
For example, once my faithful decided that the ideal gift for a wedding anniversary is ... a vacuum cleaner. See how he cares! Convinced me that this is not just a gift, but the dream of every housewife. Now I proudly ride this device around the apartment, and, you know, you even get used to it. What are diamonds, when the kitchen is in order.
And also, if you want to experience the real happiness of a married woman, go with your husband to a furniture store. There you will understand that choosing a sofa is a serious stage in a relationship. Here you are standing in front of these sofas and understand that he has his own "sofa ideal", and you have yours. After an hour of discussions, you are ready for any sofa, just to get home, and your husband has already created a whole philosophical system for choosing furniture. A sweet idyll, right?
But the most important thing, whatever you say, is mutual understanding. Don't forget to include a share of humor and a portion of patience in the family budget. And if your spouse has chosen a decision that is not the most logical for you, think: maybe this is what makes him the person with whom you are happy? And, in the end, it is worth remembering that very wedding, the diamond ring and the fairy-tale promises that married life gives us.
In general, girls, getting married is really not a misfortune. You can only fall apart while married from laughter and love. The main thing is to learn to look at family life with a smile, because then no sofas, potatoes and vacuum cleaners will be scary for you!