In previous blogs i gave my opinion on certain subjects that other bloggers have talked about ,and now it's time for me to talk about other subjects that might not of been covered.

THE LANGUAGE PROBLEM
I've communicated with some women and they say that we will find some kind of way.What does this mean they're going to be looking in their dictionary every 5 mins trying to decipher what i just said? Or are we going to spend the day trying to get a message across using charades? When i say i prefer to communicate with someone who knows English it's not just being able speak it but to be able to read and write as well.It's not just good enough being able to speak English, you also need to be able to read the instructions on a packet of spaghetti or read a menu in a restaurant.Not only would it benefit the relationship but it would also improve your chances of getting a job.How many companies do you know of that speak English? It would be the same here. How do you know whether they have Ukranian or Russian translators available for your interview.As for writing there's always the situation where you may have to get your c.v/resume translated into English. So in all having good English to me means being able to speak,read and write to a level whereby you won't have any trouble getting a job in this country or not having to go to college in order to get up to standard.

YOUR JOB
Now as mentioned in "age difference" i choose only those which i feel have enough work experience.If that person been in the same job since leaving school/university then it must be a job where's there a shortfall in this country.Having someone who has been in various different jobs and got a variety of different qualifications would probably stand a better chance of getting a job in another country.Also what also intrigues me is when a woman has a strange job or a powerfull job e.g. lawyer,judge.For someone like that to communicate with bum like me ,i feel flattered and not worthy of such a person of such a standing.But when it come down to it, it still ends up really on one outcome.

THE MEETING: HOME OR AWAY?
I've been doing this for a while and when it come down to it, do i meet in her country or mine? I've always said that she has to come to my country first, due to me not having a passport.That then raises the question whether she will string me along or are we eventually going to meet.The women i communicate with say they don't know nothing about me, but then i don't know nothing about them.I ask them questions in the letters that i send them, and i either get vague answers or they don't answer them at all.How are you going to learn about someone's personality if the won't even answer your questions. Then the question of how long comes up. One minute you been communicating for a couple of months,then it becomes a year.And you find out that you still haven't met face to face yet( is she stringing me along?).Yes some guys may ask to meet up very quickly,but i was never that type of person.As i have been in a long term relationship that after 3 years came to nothing,communicating with someone online for a year without meeting up is in my mind the same sort of thing(and it costs a lot more).

So there you have my opinion on some of the questions posed by other bloggers and i hope it was informal to you all.Hope it makes you understand why some guys do what they do on websites like this.