Do they genuinely respect and love one another? Do they understand what each needs to do to meet their partner’s basic needs while also being happy and content themselves?

It’s crucial to genuinely understand this—not just to endlessly sacrifice or make compromises in a one-sided way for the sake of maintaining some illusory perfect family. It’s not about pretending, but truly being. Being happy yourself first, and then sharing that energy and light with your loved one.

It’s also about genuinely being partners in the relationship. Taking on roles that feel genuinely comfortable for you and work well for both of you.

Of course, for centuries, it seems almost ingrained in our DNA that women are meant to be the caretakers of the home while men are the providers and protectors. As a result, many of us naturally adopt these roles as soon as we start building our own families.

But was that truly your choice? Is that really the role you want to play for your partner? Listen to yourself and honestly answer these questions. To me, what matters most is that both of you feel truly at ease, comfortable, and happy together.

It doesn’t matter as much whether each of you fulfills a traditional role you’ve “learned” since childhood. Maybe you both work, cook, clean, love each other, and are genuinely happy doing so. The most important thing is that you both feel good—and forget about what others might say because their lives may look completely different from yours.

Just build your happiness. Work, learn, grow, make your mistakes—but always cherish, respect, and be honest with your partner, your dear and beloved person. Trust me, a woman always remains a woman; even if she’s a strong and independent businesswoman, she still needs a strong shoulder to lean on—a source of support in her life in the form of a loving and caring partner.

Similarly, a man, even if he seems invincible on the outside, with an impenetrable “armor,” will always need the feminine energy that only *his* beloved woman can give him. The one who will always support him, allow him to be vulnerable at times, and just be human—not a robot who fears nothing. And he will be deeply grateful to her for that!

Allow yourselves to be real and authentic with each other. Don’t assign “labels” to yourselves or others. Regardless of what you do for work or how you express yourselves within or beyond the family, you remain a man or a woman. That’s something ingrained in your very DNA.

Simply be yourself, and be with someone who allows you to be yourself and accepts you as you are, just as you accept them. This is how you can build a truly strong and happy relationship, which can grow into a happy, harmonious, strong, and prosperous family.

Remember this. Wishing you all the best—always cherish, respect, and take care of each other. That is the ultimate secret to a truly happy family. 👫💕