When I read this blog, it caused a lot of emotions inside of me, because I believe in men who find their love, and do not expect that a woman will bring herself to him on a tray !! I think your blog and your thoughts are the thoughts of a man with complexes and who is afraid to approach a woman and say "Listen, you are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen." Fear is OK, but it is necessary to be able to overcome your own fears rather than write about them and the whole world reads. You need to approach women and get acquainted, because men are cowards and this is now ok... well, not really! Love gives you strength, it inspires, if you are rejected once, it can mean that you must come the second time and the third, sometimes if a woman says no, it means yes, but later you should be more persistent!! I will never agree with the fact that women now have to win over men, this is absurdity.
If you need to get rid of this fear, you can try to write to me, I will teach you!
Lily