We live in an era where it has become fashionable to do everything: to be an ideal mother, a successful careerist, a caring daughter, an inspiring wife, and still remain stylish, fit and smiling. But you know, in this race it is easy to lose the main thing - yourself. In fact, a woman doesn't owe anything to anyone, except one thing - to allow herself to be happy. Yes, that's right. After all, a happy woman becomes a source of light, warmth and joy for everyone around her. Her eyes sparkle, her smile inspires, her energy inspires.
Love for yourself is not selfishness, it is a basic need. To be loved and happy means to first fill yourself, and then share it with others. You can't pour from an empty jug, right?
So, what do you need to do for this?
Stop striving for the ideal. It is unattainable anyway.
Listen to yourself, your desires, and not to other people's advice.
Don't be afraid to say "no" when something goes against your feelings.
Value your time and energy, without giving them away completely.
And most importantly, surround yourself with people who see you not as a performer of duties, but as a person whom they love and appreciate.
Remember, a woman's happiness is not a reward for her work, but her right by default. And if someone thinks differently, then perhaps it's time to reconsider your social circle or your priorities.
So, dear women, take a deep breath, let go of everything unnecessary and just be happy. After all, you deserve it! With love,
Maria.