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Response to White Lily.
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Of course it would be a good thing to be taught by a beautiful woman like you. I can imagine myself sitting in a class-room situation, just the two of us, being taught by you. Or maybe we don't need a class-room situation? Just a one-on-one? Ok, that's me being funny. I respect your opinion and believe that you are partly true in your assessment of me, but I was really generalizing, not, necessarily, talking about myself. There are men out there who are just as I described, having an inferiority complex. They get nervous, speaking to a woman, especially if she's beautiful. There are also women who are afraid to speak to a man. I mean, if it's a general conversation, things might be easier, than if it's a conversation signifying an interest in forming a friendship. We are all human beings with different personalities. Some may find something within their stride, while others struggle to achieve it.

Then there is the lack of self-confidence. Not all persons can claim to be in possession of a confident nature. The story was told of a guy who loved a young lady from his village, but he was not academically inclined, so he decided to ask his friend to write the girl on his behalf. Every time he received a reply from the young lady, he went to his friend and dictated a reply to her, but, unknowingly to him, the friend was writing for himself and eventually got the girl. So, it is better if we overcome our fears and approach people for ourselves.

This site is good for some of us, in that it allows us to form friendships without having to meet, for the first time, in reality. Having established our friendships after a couple of weeks or months, we are now ready to meet in person and if we are still nervous, the meeting might not work out so good. I don't want to spread negativism here, I just pointing out some reality situations. Hope I haven't offended anyone, but you take the blog in the spirit in which it was given. Cheerio.

KenMitch
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