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How to psychologically prepare for marriage
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To make this transition harmonious, it is important to focus not only on the harmony of the organization of the holiday, but also on the inner side.
1. Understanding the essence of marriage
Realize that marriage is a partnership where love, trust, respect and willingness to compromise are important.
Understand that a happy marriage is built on working together, and not on expectations that everything will work out by itself.
2. Discuss expectations with your partner.
Talk about your views on family life: differences, finances, pastime, plans for children.
Make sure that values ​​and goals coincide. This will help to avoid misunderstandings in the future.
3. Stress management
Planning a wedding can be stressful. Try not to take on too many responsibilities, delegate tasks.
Find ways to relax: meditate, exercise, or take up a stress-relieving hobby.
4. Work on emotional maturity
Learn to express your emotions constructively. In marriage, it is important to be able to talk about your feelings and relationships.
Work on conflict management skills. Instead of blaming, discuss problems and seek compromises.
5. Prepare for changes.
Life after marriage may change a little: more shared responsibilities and habits appear.
Be prepared to adapt and work on new rules for your family life.
6. Leave room for personal freedom.
In marriage, it is important to maintain your individuality. Maintain your interests, hobbies. It is important to sometimes be “separate” from your partner
Respect your partner's need for personal time.
7. Don't focus only on the wedding.
A wedding is only one day, but marriage is a whole life. Prepare not only for the celebration, but also for what follows.
Discuss your plans for life after the wedding: where you will live, how you will plan your budget, what you are planning for the coming years.
8. Resolve unresolved issues.
It is important to discuss all contentious issues before the wedding. If there are any misunderstandings, it is better to come to a compromise right away.

If you are worried or anxious, share them with your partner. Honesty is the key to harmony.
9. Tune in to support each other
Marriage is a path where you will not only share joy, but also overcome difficulties together. Be ready to be a support for your partner
Marriage is not only a step forward, but also an opportunity to grow together. Adapt to it consciously, discuss everything important with your partner and remember that the key to a happy marriage is openness, support and love.

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