I'm fond of photography. Once in the evening I went to shoot the sunset. Photos have turned out quite good. . After snapping a little, I sat down on the bench to look at the photos and read the blog. It was already after 8 pm, it was rapidly darkening, and it was cold outside. On the next bench sat a guy and a girl. And there was such a conversation between them:
The girl says: give me your jacket, I'm freezing. And guy answers: honey, when we came out of the car, I told you several times, take your jacket! And you, type of carry laziness.., now its warm, i dont need a jacket.. It turns out, you did not take it yourself, so why am I due to your foolishness should to freeze?
Here I got up and went further to take pictures. Besides, I do not like to listen to other people's conversations.

But this case has surprised me because for our culture it is not typical. The man usually always gives the jacket to the girl which has frozen and expecially if she has asked..
And what do you think? On the one hand, the guy, apparently, is not right. On the other hand, well, he knew that it would be cold, and indeed several times invited the girl to take her jacket. Why did not she listen? He was obviously talking the sense.. Not a fool, in general. :) And yet, in this situation, I'm probably not on his side.

And you ?? I would like to hear your opinion on this case, because this is just 1 social example of behavior of a man and a woman who requires a discussion so that we understand each other better and possibly change our behavior for the better to be happy in a relationship.

warmly,

Elina