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Why the holidays make us dream of love
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The holiday season is magical—twinkling lights, the smell of pine, and the promise of cozy nights spent with loved ones. But if there’s one thing Christmas movies have mastered, it’s the idea of a perfect love story. From grand romantic gestures in snowy streets to serendipitous meetings under the mistletoe, these films show us that love is just around the corner, waiting to find us.

Yet, for many people, the holidays can feel painfully lonely. It’s the time of year when we’re surrounded by messages of togetherness, but that contrast can amplify the absence of a partner. Even for someone like me, who enjoys my independence, the warmth of these stories stirs something inside—a yearning to find that one person to share these moments with.

I’ve often thought about how love during the holidays feels different. It’s not about grand declarations or picture-perfect moments (though those would be nice). It’s about the simple things: laughing over a cup of hot cocoa, watching the snow fall, or unwrapping gifts together by the fire. These little moments, shown so vividly in holiday films, remind us of what’s missing when we’re alone.

This time of year makes me reflect on what I want in a partner—not just someone to spend holidays with, but someone who feels like home all year round. As I watch these movies and see their magical love stories, I can’t help but wonder if this Christmas will be the one where my own love story begins.

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