1. Intrusive Fears
If fear dominates our minds, it closes off our hearts, making it difficult to express feelings naturally and sincerely. Ironically, the things we fear most often become our reality simply because we spend so much energy dwelling on them. Our fears are fed by our attention, taking on tangible form. True desires remain hidden if we are afraid to face what’s in our hearts.
To uncover your true wants, you need to confront your fears. This requires honesty with yourself and acceptance of what’s hidden inside. Fears dissolve not when you push them away but when you face them head-on. Often, you’ll find that what you feared wasn’t as monstrous as you imagined. Look closer, and you might even discover that your fear has a friendly face. 😁
Working with an experienced psychologist can be invaluable for overcoming intrusive fears. Taking that first brave step to book a consultation and talk openly about your struggles is a mark of true courage. Courage is not the absence of fear but the willingness to move forward *despite it*. Over time, you’ll build the skill of walking the path your soul desires, no matter how insurmountable the obstacles may seem. Everything is achievable. 👍
2. Limiting Beliefs
Beliefs like *“Everyone in my family was unhappy in relationships, so I will be too”* are limiting. They close us off from better possibilities. Even if, in theory, we disagree with such beliefs, if they’re rooted in our subconscious, they still shape much of our lives.
Breaking free from these limitations involves several steps:
1. Recognition and Awareness
2. Analysis and Understanding
3. Transformation and Release
I’ll dive deeper into these steps in another article, but for now, it’s important to note that limiting yourself in possibilities also limits your desires. 😇
If happiness feels unattainable, what’s the point of wanting it? Thoughts like *“It’s impossible,”* *“Not for me,”* or *“It’s useless”* create mental barriers. Overcoming these barriers starts with granting yourself permission to be happy. This alone is an act of defiance against limiting beliefs.
All restrictions are created by a mind that doesn’t fully grasp the nature of life. Yes, personal boundaries and rules can be helpful. But the soul breathes freedom, and its desires cannot be confined by rigid, artificial limits. The soul is like an artist yearning to paint on a blank canvas. When forced to color inside stencils, it falls into sadness and despair. But stencils can be tossed aside at any moment. And many people have already done just that. ✅
3. Foreign Desires
Sometimes, what we desperately want—and even achieve—isn’t truly ours. We play roles, wear masks, and lose sight of our authentic selves. In today’s world, where manipulation tactics are highly advanced, our desires are often influenced by those who stand to profit—those seeking our money, likes, votes, energy, or even our lives.
Manipulators succeed to the extent that we allow them. How do they control while making us feel free? By convincing us that the desires they implant are our own. Believing we are free, we remain enslaved. 😓
Freedom from these false desires comes through awareness. When a strong desire arises, ask yourself: *Whose desire is this?* What part of your soul or psyche claims ownership of it? Can you identify the “self” within you that generated this impulse? Do you like this version of yourself? Do you consider it your authentic self? If not, it’s better to transform it. Once you do, those imposed or borrowed desires will also change.
If working with inner “subpersonalities” feels too complex on your own, seek help from a specialist. ✅
Natural Desires
Natural desires arise effortlessly. When there are no rigid restrictions, nagging fears, or deceptive influences, they become clear to us. There’s no need to force yourself to want—or not want—something. The only question is whether there are obstacles preventing your true nature from emerging.
Without barriers, there’s no problem. Like a river flows freely without dams or blockages, so too does your psychic energy when the soul is unencumbered. This energy naturally finds creative outlets, leading you toward fulfillment and the realization of your true potential. 🙏❤️
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