To me and most men the perfect woman is? Perfectly imperfect . I got thousands of letters. About hair, weight , eyes, breasts, butt and more. Asked what I prefer in a woman.
Based on my thoughts and my real life friends in my daily life. There is one true answer to this.
We want and need a woman who is simple and easy to get a long with.
I have a lot of women in my family. 5 sisters, nieces, girl cousins and all their girlfriends. So this is what I've learned from them. ( most of my family have been married over 35 years or more. I'm the youngest out of 9. ).
Watching all of them through the years.
I've learned the women in my family and friends family. Who struggled with relationships. Tried to change their man.
It never works. A person who they are. A man doesn't change.
Men learn from the men in their family and other men around them. How those men treat women. Will most likely be the same way as they do.
When it comes to physical appearance or size. That's a personal issue.
Every woman is beautiful !
To prove my point on that do some people watching. You will see tall/ short, thin/ fat, old/young and every mismatch out there. The strangest thing is they are the happiest. They discovered their authentic self as well as their partners.
No games no vanity nothing but being real with one another .
In the case of sizes you list is crazy, Television and camera effects especially the porn industry. Love smaller women mainly. Because most cameras add at least 5 kilos on to the body. Or make the actor or actress seem strange looking. So through digitally enhanced software they can reprogram every size and shape of a person's body. The smaller they are the less they have to do. They stretch legs and male genitalia out to make them look longer.
Size doesn't mean a good or a bad thing as to how tall or short, thin or heavy a person is. It's just who they are.
I believe most men are looking for inner beauty as well someone who has the same viewpoints in life or value system as they do.
Men in the west have radically changed in the last 15-20 years. If it's not easy to be with that woman they choose. Then it's over.
Easy doesn't mean sex, cooking, or having the same things in common either. It means they are on the same stage of life that they are. With the same moral, ethical, and value system as they do. Now most men I know no longer want their woman doing everything they do . They like to do things with their woman. But still do things with the guys.
So they have their own individuality an so does she.
When looking at life. Women plan out every detail. The wedding, how many children , names of children, how the towels are to be folded and more.
Where as men don't!
What a woman has to do is ask herself what does it truly matter. If I fold the clothes this way he does it another. In the grand scheme of life does it truly matter. Did anyone die, get hurt, house burned down ? If not does it matter who has the right way or wrong way of folding clothes? Yes but I like them folded like this because it works best for me or it fits best on the shelf. It's like trying to tell someone who is right handed to write left handed. How is that going to workout ? Not good for either one of you.
Communication communication communication is the key. You catch more bees with honey than you do with sour milk.
If your so stuck on personal preferences and vanity. You could be losing out on the love of your life. That goes to men and women.
The key to a great relationship , growing love, and happiness is not to wear a mask for who you are. Nobody is perfect!
In my family marriages have hit 67 years.
Oh another thing that was brought up in a letter to me. Since I come from a very large family. This weekend we are having a family reunion in a park. This is just my mothers side of the family. Over 650 people are invited. My fathers side of the family is a lot larger. That number is blood relatives not counting nonblood family members like inlaws.
In my family and most families I know. Are extremely accepting of people brought into their lives. So if I brought a woman from Ukraine or Russia into the family they would accept her as family the first day. To be frank no matter her age, but based my family would know her sacrifice to me for love. They would be highly protective of her and her children if she has them. They would preach to me endlessly to make sure I treated her right and ask her frankly if she wanted or needed anything from them just call. They would take her side over mine! That's my families tradition.
Why ? Because a nonblood family member love is conditional. Where a blood family member is unconditional. So to make peace or resolve difficulties between her and I. They know how to get me to compromise with her. For the sake of the relationship. Most importantly it's all about being happy. If your not happy. No one can make you happy. Happiness come from within.
Life is short! Quit worrying about outer beauty start searching for inner beauty.
Life is good. And be happy.
Life is not a competition. It's a journey to be savored. Sweet at times , sour at times, sometimes no flavored.
Just enjoy the journey.