Kenmitch, I enjoy reading what you write. You are an honorable gentleman. The woman who is lucky enough to get you will be blessed! The level of maturity in your words, as opposed to some here, is very refreshing.
You are also very wise, so let me ask you a question. Others can respond, too, if they like.
Once we have found a person that we wish to pursue, should we be able to block the incoming messages from others?
I ask this because when I am chatting with my selected lady, annoying messages from others continue to pop up, along with an irritating noise that that I can't get rid of unless I turn off my speakers. No, clicking on the little bell does not help...
For me, this is not a good customer experience. I have selected a woman and am trying to establish a relationship with her. Do I need to keep seeing pictures of other girls, especially very young girls in skimpy clothing?
I can communicate with my lady friend via personal email, but sometimes the chat is more convenient, as well as the letters.
Any thoughts on this?
Thank you,

David