Hello, David,

Thanks for the compliments. I think that the problems you are experiencing are an administrative one, relative to the site. Only they can be able to remedy those annoying pop-ups. Another solution to the problem will be to get your lady's direct contacts and come off this site, you'll be able to communicate with her in peace and quiet. You said that you like communicating in chats. If the possibility exists, you and your lady can form your own chats system by using either Skype or Watsapp. You can also peruse the FAQ here to see if you can get around the annoyances. Hope I've been able to help somewhat. Do have a blessed day/night.