Dear Girls,(Woman)Why does this keep coming up.I do not understand ,how can you not see the answer.Let me give you something to consider or think about. I can not say for but the Western Man from the United States Immigration Laws FROWN on a OLDER MAN sponcering or bringing across a woman of younger age.I would say because of the fact, if a MAN(30,40 or 45) is much older than a WOMAN(she 18 or 19 maybe 21)and if this mans health fails him in the next 10 to 15 yrs will she have had enough time to adjust or take care of herself without him.The average American Mans life span is 70 to 80 yrs,sadly we tend to take or health and diet for granted.The next reason would be for the simple other reason
(that should just jump out at you)Will this relationship last,is it real,or in two yrs after you are Married and a leagal citizen of the U.S.YOU PACK YOUR BAGGS,FILE FOR DIVORCE OR SEPERATION.There documented cases in court of these situations happening.Men take a chance on finding love ,just as much as the Ladie's on this site and they may not last.One last thought(your thinking finally will he be quiet)The man just simply can not keep up with the younge woman or the things they thought they had in common, just are not there.The younger woman finds a man closer to her age to make up for the lack. Now,you might think ,this tuff, hard and rude man what does he know , Well ,girls younge woman ,take the time to research the statistics,stop complaining and grumbling about age ,show the maturity you say you have.Now,by no means am I trying to anger you ladie's or think anyone on this site would do this , I have talked with some nice woman on this site and recieved several,what I thought were genuine and sincere letters and I met some that were ,needless to say more interested in other activities than a seriouse relationship....so I hope you ponder and consider these thoughts.Give the men a break and this question a break.