1. Start with yourself: Celebrate in your style

Often we forget that holidays are not necessarily a loud company or noisy parties. This is a time that you can spend as you want. Ask yourself, "What will I bring pleasure to this night?" You may have long dreamed of having an evening only for yourself - to light candles, to prepare your favorite dinner, to wear the best dress and to turn on your favorite movies or music. Why not turn a New Year's Eve into your own love for yourself?

One wise man said, "A person who is happy alone will never be lonely." Learning to enjoy your own company is the first step towards that in the future, someone wants to join your world.

2. Open the door for new dating

Loneliness is a great incentive for change. It is not to wait for yourself to be a miracle, but to create it yourself. For example, make an account on a dating site or communicate more actively with new people on social networks. It is during the festive period that many feel like loneliness and ready for communication.

Write to someone who is interested in you, congratulate you on the New Year or just send a warm message. You never know what dating can become special. Perhaps it is this night that will give you someone who will be around in the coming years.

3. Changes Focus: Thank the past year and the dream of a new

New Year's Eve is a symbolic moment of transition from old to new. So instead of missing, take a pen and paper and write a letter of thank you for all the good that has happened to you for a year. Thank you even for the challenges - they have made you stronger.

And then make up a list of your wishes and goals for the New Year. Imagine what your life will look in 12 months if you start acting now. Let this ritual be your inspiration and starting point.

4. Hold the "Evening Dream" along with others

Holidays are a time when many feel loneliness, so you are not alone. If you do not want to spend the night in silence, find like -minded people. Have a virtual meeting with friends, relatives or even new acquaintances. Share toasts, dreams and stories - you are surprised as it unites.

Or try something new: participation in online measures, interest groups or charitable actions. Helping others will fill the heart with warmth during the holidays and give life a new sense.

5. Believe in Christmas magic (and in yourself)

I always say that the New Year is a time when you can afford to believe in miracles. Even if now it seems that love is far away, remember: the right people come to our lives when we are ready for it. Sometimes silence and loneliness are just a pause before the best head of your life.

Meet the New Year with a smile, even if you are alone. Greet yourself on what you are strong, beautiful and bold. Let yourself dream and be ready to open your heart for new opportunities.

Loneliness on holidays is not a sentence, but an opportunity. The opportunity to start with a blank sheet, choose a new direction and become a better version of yourself. And who knows - maybe next year someone will stand nearby, hugging you under the fight of chimes.

The main thing is to believe in your value, not to be afraid to take steps towards the new one and always remain open to love. Sometimes the most beautiful stories begin when we least expect it.